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Nimexa, The Gentle Breeze
Dark Prognosticus
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 Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 3:55 pm
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Well, a 'hate me' topic was started (Also, thank you so much Orangesoda, I don't know what I did to get you to hate me, but I'm sorry? Anyways..)
I told soemone I'm deactovating my acocunt, and I'mma just post stuff here that I should remember about all this:
DH and Me (PM):
| DragonHeart wrote: | Well, apparently, from all I've seen so far. You need to really lighten up.
Everyone is right, you've really been stubborn with this. I mean, if you believe people hate you here, then you're completely wrong. (Except for Orangesoda.) I mean no insult, but if you want proof, you have to branch out and actually talk to people rather then have them talk to you.
You really are being stubborn Anime, and you need to realize that. No matter how many places you go to, you still aren't improving yourself mentally. If you just sat down and enjoyed what you had where you currently were, then you'd be a lot happier.
I understand that you don't like being so attached to people since that Animal Crossing forum incident, but since Xe left, you've been a shell of your former self, and everyone is beginning to get a changed image of you, even I.
There's not much left to say Anime, but it's up to you really. |
| animemangavg wrote: | Since Xe left, I was never INVITED into convos. They got bigger, and Moogle kept making fun of me, with everyone agreeing with him
I wasn't invited until Ruki signed on. He was the only one that would invite me at ALL. I told him to stop, becuase I wasn't wanted by anyone in it but him. And after that, I was nver IN those convos.
I'm sorry if I'm too pestimistic about myslef that I'm afraid to start conversations, but I thought friends are suppsoed to see through differnces like that. I'm NOT currently at F6, so I can't really 'enjoy' that, can I? The changed image was before Xe even left. And if everyone really thinks I'm such a uselss case-
Whatever. It doesn't matte rnow. By the end of today my account will be deactivated so that dochue Orangesoda wins. |
| DragonHeart wrote: | No Anime, just no.
I know you're so pessimistic, and I'm sorry that I couldn't see through such a difference.
But that's all I can be really sorry for, if you want Moogle to stop making fun of you, just tell him to stop. I want to help you Anime, but it seems as... well... as you said, you're being a useless case. But I like you as a friend, Anime. I respected you and still do. I don't want you to deactivate your account as such, it isn't right, even if it is life. I don't want to watch you disappear from the internet because of situations like this.
There are many people I hate on F6, and even so, I don't leave. I enjoy it here, it isn't about to fall apart, and it people don't start large hate gatherings. (Other then against Shin.)
Anime, I don't know what you're thinking, but just stop, everyone wants you back, and if you want them to stop making fun of you, just say the word. I'd never forgive myself if you left in the condition you're in now. |
In a topic where DH told how I was gonan deactivate my account:
| The Great B-Man wrote: |  You know what...? Screw it! If he's deactivating, let him bloody well deactivate. I don't even give worth a damn anymore!
After all that's said and done, after all we've tried to do for him, this is how he treats us?
Then I don't want him here. Nobody needs a sour puss with such a self-confidence problem like that!
If you still want to talk to him, do it on MSN or something, but he's pretty much pulled my last nose hair with this now. It's one thing to ask if you are liked just for the heck of it, but when you say it could make or break you and you even get someone else to post for you, then I think you may need to look into a little help. That's just how I see it though.
Never before have I come to appreciate Sara Bareilles's "Love Song" than I do now... It fits so well here. |
| animemangavg wrote: | I didn't ASK for this topic B-Man. I didn't want it. I knew it would just casue something like this. -_-;
And "after all we've tried to do for him,"?
Sure, you helped me when I was in a depresion last time, but then EVERYONE just stopped talking to me or insulting me.
The only time I was invited in convos before was when Ruki signe don HOURS after it was made and invited me. I wasn't wanted, so I told Ruki to stop invinting me himself.
And guess what, no one else did. Just like I thought. Months passed now when you don't even know me. How DARE any of you say I've changed if you haven't bothered to chatkill CHECK.
Talk to me on MSN if you want. I don't care. I'm done with this now. I'm not sad at all, by the way. I still have other friends on the internet and all. Friends I made when no one else talked to me.
Have fun RPing with the new Elitsist order that took over, and only posting in the spam board expect once in a blue moon. I don't hate any of you (even those that hate me, Orangesoda...) but I just am done being here. Goodbye. |
| super gamer2000 wrote: | | Oh yes. I hope you have lots of fun with the retards at DigiButter or /tottally not elitest/ Black Citadel. |
On MSN (A mesage from SG2000:
(4:24 PM) Krazeh Penguin: Don't bother repling to this, I'm blocking you when I'm finished. We did try, you didn't listen, and because you didn't listen, you didn't know we tried. We stopped inviting you to convos because of how much whining you were doing. and yes, how DARE me to not check, despite the fact I tried and go no awnsers. Its reasons like this Duality exists.
(4:24 PM) Krazeh Penguin is now Offline
Bac on the topic:
| Warai wrote: | | super gamer2000 wrote: | | Warai wrote: | I hate to post in a topic when I barely log on in the first place, but...
The majority of you are taking the internet too seriously at this point.
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This is why Digibuter failed. They never took anything serious. Just for taking one little thread serious, we're taking the entire internet too serious. Serious is needed sometimes. [hidden]Duality is needed.[/hidden] |
I understand that sometimes you need to be serious.
However, when I look around, I honestly believe digibutter has nicer users than this place does.
It is just my opinion though, so, who knows, maybe I'll change my mind? |
| super gamer2000 wrote: | | animemangavg wrote: | Just to clear some things up:
I know you tried to help. I know I didn't listen and all.
But I knew you helped. When I WAS IN DEPRESSION THOUGH. after I finally got out of it, you justs topped talking to me thinking I was still in it. When ever someone would talk to me on MSN, I would respond. Ask a question and I'd answer. But people only talked to me when they were bored or wanted something.
Ah well, if you are too dim and too biased to call people 'reatarded' if you don't even know who I am refering to, or calling people elitist when I haven't even RPED there for one (and at least they wouldn't shoot down IDEAS becuase it may affect thier pefect <img src="http://www.falcon6.net/chat/chat/images/smilies/smile9.gif" border=0> world in their head), then fine. |
We never knew you were feeling better. You never showed it or told us. If you needed to talk, you did a bad job asking.
Oh yes, I'm dim, when you're too scared to even mention me by name. And yes, I still think they're retarded. Not all of them but majority says alot.
So what if you haven't RPed at the Citadel? I don't care what you've done there. I've been there and I'm simply stating a fact. They don't shoot down ideas? They just don't shoot them down. The delete them, then ban the maker, and his friends. |
| Waluigi the Underdog wrote: | | animemangavg wrote: | | Waluigi the Underdog wrote: | *sigh* >_> Look, Anime, whether you didn't see a lot of convos or not, and I'm going to take your word for it, you're kinda supposed to let us know you want to talk. <.< Springing this on us all of a sudden just isn't an appropriate way to handle it. I'm not about to judge you or anything, whether this is common or not or it's worth getting pissed at you, though to be fair, this seems like a regular occurrence. If you want people to help you, on some level, you really need to tell them. Humans aren't able to look right in peoples' heads, you know, and over the internet, that's especially true.
Honestly, if you're really having problems though, you're much better off seeking professional help, as opposed to running around from forum to forum. <.< That's never going to make you feel any better. |
But I was pretty sure no one wanted to talk to ME. I don't need help, I jsut wanted to talk.
Like I told DH, I'm sorry for being so pestiistic and self-councuous to start converstaions myself, but I thought friends understood difefrences like that and were able to get around it. |
I'm probably the wrong person to give you advice, since we haven't really spoken much, but it seems like, from what I've picked up from SG, you can be sort of difficult to talk to, whatever that means. >.> I don't think you not getting invited is because we don't want to talk to you, per se. But, analyzing and such aside, if you want to talk with us, you really need to say so. Just deciding nobody wants to talk to you and then just popping up and saying we've done nothing for you and accusing us of that (though I suppose it's a fair admission that, while you haven't come forward about it, it doesn't seem like the majority of people have reached out to you) isn't really fair. <_<
Friends can get around differences, and understand them, but you can't expect to just rely on them to get everything. On some level, you have to actually advocate for yourself, start convos, or at least let us know you want to be in one to begin with. Ruki never told us you told him not to invite you to convos, so, logically, we, or I at least, assumed you didn't want to be in a convo with us. >.> |
| The Great B-Man wrote: |  Anime could've asked to talk in the first place, as many have already said...
I'm...not good at conversation starting, you see. I pretty much never start a conversation. It's always the other way.
Not to mention that, the last time we invited anime to a convo, he pretty much left immediately. I got the impression that he didn't want to talk to us.
Sorry, but that's just how I feel, and I stand by it. If it's incorrect, then prove it. |
| super gamer2000 wrote: | | Mechasonic1 wrote: | | super gamer2000 wrote: | | Mechasonic1 wrote: | I sorta understand what Anime is going though right now. I, too, feel rejected by other people for not getting invited to these chats and such. Every now and then I do, but that's about it. Pretty Depressing, if you ask me. I mean, he just got out of depression, and then everyone left! After a hard time like that, you need to help the person get back into their normal lifestyle, instead of just leaving them to deal with it...
But hey, what do I know. I'm just that guy that everyone here hates. I'll be quiet now... |
If you want an invite just ask. We never knew he was out of depression. And I don't hate you. |
I always feel like if I ask, i'm going to get turned away, or people will get mad at the person who invited me. I'm a people-pleaser, I don't want people to be mad at other people because of me. Also, it always felt rude to me... |
It's okay, we won't turn you down. And I know the people there well enough to know they won't get mad at me for inviting you.
| supermsn wrote: | | Screw it. bye, guys |
Urg, don't leave. What we do to you? The anime thing has been going on for a time, and we've tried. We can't make everyone happy no matter how hard we try. |
| DragonHeart wrote: | Anime.
I can't take this entire thread seriously.
I count you as a friend, but I have no idea where this chatkill thread is headed, except the back of people's minds.
First it's about you, then its about the internet, and now its... I have no idea.
The RPers at Digibutter are great, I was actually REALLY impressed, but the rest of the site just doesn't seem as up to par. But, that's just my opinion, and when was my opinion ever listened to?
The whole chatkill world is ending, everything doesn't seem as great as it used to, and we have ourselves to thank for that. But I remain optimistic and so, I digress.
I find it difficult to talk to you Anime, right there. It was intresting through PMs, but in IMs, it seems difficult to hold a quality conversation. I talk about how I'm doing, I ask how you're doing and I really can't work with it. Because of this, I can't have engaging long conversations that you probably have with others, so I come to talk with you whenever something big happens... but of course, lately my life has been very mellow and I've been off Messenger quite a bit as well.
And so, despite what happens in the next couple hours which will probably hold a deeper meaning then any of us know, I will remain your friend, but I do not support your actions.
I joined the internet community to talk with others 'round the world, despite my natural shyness, and make friends. I didn't join it to solve such deep matters that I, being a newbie to the community, wouldn't be able to solve without making a stupid mistake that I'd soon regret.
So mainly, I regret this whole thing ever happened. I just want this to be over with so we can all move on with our chatkill lives for the better or worse because one way or another, if all forums died, we have much bigger problems to deal with. But that's mainly me ranting. And that's my final judgement. |
| DragonHeart wrote: | | animemangavg wrote: | | DragonHeart wrote: | Basicly, just learn how to small talk Anime.
It makes it a lot easier to have engaging conversations if you know how to small talk, it does my mom wonders... (Unfortunately.) |
Small talk from me, noramlly doesn't work well. I tried. I don't know how to 'learn' it now... |
Ask people how they're doing then go into specifics, eventually after a few rounds of that back and forth it turns into a quality conversation. If a sentence is ended with just 'I'm fine' isn't really conversationable... I mean, how awkward would it be if someone asked you 'why are you fine?' ...Maybe it's just me, but it doesn't sound right.
But that's my take on small talk, and I'm no expert. |
| animemangavg wrote: | | super gamer2000 wrote: | | animemangavg wrote: | Just to clear some things up:
I know you tried to help. I know I didn't listen and all.
But I knew you helped. When I WAS IN DEPRESSION THOUGH. after I finally got out of it, you justs topped talking to me thinking I was still in it. When ever someone would talk to me on MSN, I would respond. Ask a question and I'd answer. But people only talked to me when they were bored or wanted something.
Ah well, if you are too dim and too biased to call people 'reatarded' if you don't even know who I am refering to, or calling people elitist when I haven't even RPED there for one (and at least they wouldn't shoot down IDEAS becuase it may affect thier pefect <img src="http://www.falcon6.net/chat/chat/images/smilies/smile9.gif" border=0> world in their head), then fine. |
We never knew you were feeling better. You never showed it or told us. If you needed to talk, you did a bad job asking.
Oh yes, I'm dim, when you're too scared to even mention me by name. And yes, I still think they're retarded. Not all of them but majority says alot.
So what if you haven't RPed at the Citadel? I don't care what you've done there. I've been there and I'm simply stating a fact. They don't shoot down ideas? They just don't shoot them down. The delete them, then ban the maker, and his friends. |
Like I said, if no oen talks to me, I can't talk to them, so you didn't know because of that.
Too scared? No, I just try not to flame or point certien people out. Have a problem with that, too bad.
And tehY DID that, sure. But months ago. You can't handle change very well can you? If you are so mad at me about JOINING. A. FORUM. then just get over it. It isn't your business what I do, and maybe there is a reason I joined it. Don't hang onto the past. I didn't like waht Dragus did ethier, but at least I can give him another chance to see if he really changed. |
| animemangavg wrote: | | super gamer2000 wrote: | | animemangavg wrote: | | super gamer2000 wrote: | | animemangavg wrote: | | super gamer2000 wrote: | | animemangavg wrote: | | DragonHeart wrote: | Basicly, just learn how to small talk Anime.
It makes it a lot easier to have engaging conversations if you know how to small talk, it does my mom wonders... (Unfortunately.) |
Small talk from me, noramlly doesn't work well. I tried. I don't know how to 'learn' it now... |
Well, the thing is, the way you are when they reply, you don't really say any thing. Asking questions help, or even reterning comments on what their talking about. |
I don't really have opinions on that so I respond with ">_>" or "..." when I don't know what to say. |
And that made me think I was saying something stupid >_> |
Sorry. I told you what I meant when you told me that, though. |
My memory is very random. |
Ah.... Well I just asked Warai if she felt stupid when i did it to her (I talk to ehr about everyday, so...)
She said it used to, but when i told her it just emans I don't knoww aht to say she just overlooks it now. |
| Falcon6 wrote: | I like Anime. He's a good guy and I respect him and I'm happy to call him my friend. Unfortunately, we both have a habit of not being able to start conversations on a whim without somehow being wacky.=P
And cut down the hostility.
Good? Good. |
On MSN:
Krazeh Penguin says:
hey, I'm sorry too.
Nimexa, The Gentle Breeze says:
For what?
Krazeh Penguin says:
Insulting the places you go too, Just because I'm not very fond of them, I shouldn't be trying to force it on you.
Nimexa, The Gentle Breeze says:
Okay, well, sorry about my last post then. It kinda invoves that, but I posted it before you IM'd me.
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Nimexa, The Gentle Breeze
Dark Prognosticus
Burning Werewolf
Joined: 04 May 2007
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| Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 3:57 pm
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To be editied as things advance.
It is meant for me to rememebr, not you all to read.... But Opinions on all this are welcome. If you think I'm wrong, go ahead and say it. I want critism. I want to know if you think I did the wrong thing/ said the wrong thing.
Or Vice Via. |
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Tails Doll
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| Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 4:11 pm
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I have no idea what happened. |
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Alice
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| Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 4:14 pm
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| Sandslash wrote: | | I have no idea what happened. |
In short...
DP said he was going to deactivate his account on the F6 forums.
And so everyone started being asses, with only about two people being fair and unbiased.
c: |
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Nimexa, The Gentle Breeze
Dark Prognosticus
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| Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 7:18 pm
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Yeah, Basically.
Also, it seems it's done. >_> So... yeah. |
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jaled
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| Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:21 pm
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| Dark Prognosticus wrote: | Yeah, Basically.
Also, it seems it's done. >_> So... yeah. |
I was being nice. :3 |
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