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[Legendary Mashine]

I'm tired of having no friends, both online and IRL. I'm tired of being that kid nobody talks to. I'm tired of being that fat kid. I'm tired of being that one and only kid that can't get a boyfriend, that one kid who doesn't have sex.
Around here, even adults will make fun of you if you're sixteen and don't have a boyfriend, and anyone over 14 has to be having sex in order to be anybody in relation to their peers.

So, anyone with a slutty reputation at their school... how do I do it? How do I get that reputation?

When I have no male acquaintances, and all the guys around me are either super-nerds who somehow have gorgeous girlfriends, or jocks...

... should I like, slip my cellphone number to some guy I don't know, and offer to sleep with him even if I'm really fat? ._. My mom might get kinda mad though, and I don't have any birth control. I know my mom would get me some if I had a boyfriend and wanted to have sex, but if I asked her for some because I wanted to sleep with some random guy I didn't know I'm not sure she'd get me any.

Or, how can I get people to think I'll sleep with them, even if I'm still a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet?

(Bear in mind, I'm very fat and nerdy, and everyone knows this. So, making a transition would be hard.)

Please help. This is a serious thread.

[Celeste Dimentia]

Don't play into the expectations of this subsociety... I mean... if your image is more important I suppose... I can't really say anything more on the matter if that's the case, actually. I'm sorry.

[Arson]

I'll be your friend. I, honestly, see a great person in you... I really do.

[Legendary Mashine]

Intarwebs-friends does not count. And if you're going to attempt to talk me out of changing, don't post.

[Arson]

[Popple]

Arson is right. Even if we don't know you in real life, we still care about you and don't want you throwing your life away.

When all your slutty classmates are 18 and have to pay for child support, I don't think you will regret not fitting in.

[Flavio]

Those people are clearly idiots.

What would compel you to try and fit in with those idiots? Shouldn't you take enough satisfaction in knowing that you're better than them? Really, in the end even if you do become accepted with them how would you be able to accept yourself?

Maybe Flavio doesn't understand. Just do what you feel is right.

[Ligador]

Kinda what Flavio said. There's no need in being like the sex addicts that are all over nowadays. In the end, I guess they realise that unless they become bishes, all of that won't get them anywhere.

Just try to focus on your professional formation; you can compensate the social part here, in Digibutter.

[Medikoopa]

Don't let them get to you. I was called many harsh things because I was really different. I had visible arm hair because my hair is so dark... My form was, and still is, scrawny and I was really good in my studies. In fact, I was friendly with the teachers, especially the librarians, and I rarely got in trouble. If I did, it was because some idiot picked a fight with me and I was caught fighting (though I was really defending myself).

I have been called 'tbe werewolf', 'the rat', 'Cousin It' (this one due to my long head of hair as well as the dark armhair), and, in highschool, 'Sadako' or 'The Girl from the Ring' (Sadako is her name in the original Japanese movie).

I had few friends, but they were real ones. Occasionally, one of the cool kids either pulled a prank by pretending to be my friend or, in some cases, tried to be friendly with me, but this was out of pity or to make themselves look good. The only guy I liked, I had a crush on him for seven years, all the while he ignored me. On the seventh year, he told me off in front of a large number of boys who loved to torment me.

Sure, I may not had been the fat-nerdy kid like you, but I was the scrawny-hairy-nerdy kid. So trust me when I say this...

Whatever you do, Jolene, do not attempt to be slutty. Not only would you be degrading yourself, but its just not the way to go. I never tried to imitate the 'popular' kids because I knew that I was better than them. Sure, it was a bit of an ego-boost, but considering everything... I needed one.

And look at the bright side: when you reach college, everything will change. If you hang in there, good things will happen.

I apoligize if I derailed or if something I said bothers you, but you really should not try to fit in. Not with people like that...

[Super ronery pirrow]

I'll be your friend, since I also dont have friends because I'm too short and thin.

[Sumakima Josindu]

I have ADHD. (I think) I get teased a lot for it. Really, the people that call me name are usually dumber than me. I don't take medication, because I'm not going to change my personality. I don't care, because I know that I'll be their boss someday, and you'll be your classmates boss, too. Don't destroy your life like this.

If you think you need to be slutty to fit in, then you are so wrong. Be yourself. If anyone teases you, just laugh in their face and walk away. It works for me. Just laugh in their faces. If a popular kid comes up to you, just walk away and laugh.

I agree with everyone here. DON'T try to fit in with those people, because if you do, your life will spiral downwards into a pit of darkness and despair.

[Admiral Bobbery]

Jolene, in my opinion, the ones who you call your peers, have some what brainwashed you into believing that you will be cool, and will be their friends, if you do what they say. You may need to start hanging out with people, of whom don't do this type of behavior.

If you are really dying for a boyfriend, just start talking to a boy of whom you like. You should get to know the person better, maybe ask them to the movies. Don't have sex before you are married, it is unjust.

Being slutty isn't good, it is more of someone using you. They are using your parts for their entertainment. This is not being like a regular person, having children. They are the people who will have to have child support, and while you are being chaste, you'll be making money before them, and you'll also be living a clean life.

[Sam]

[Legendary Mashine]

dsfjsgdjig i said that if you don't want to help me then DON'T POST.

I've heard all the "be proud of yourself" shit before. And it doesn't work. I look at my mom, who "was proud of herself" all her life, and she's almost 60, and still has no friends, still has never been in a good relationship, we're ass-poor compared to the people around us (I know we're lower-middle-class and not poor, but where we live everyone else thinks of us as ass-poor.) She still hates herself. She still has suicidal impulses.

All of my friends who have gone to college, especially gone to college in the same state as we are in now (which is what I have to do, we simply don't have the money for me to go away) have all said that absolutely nothing changes. In fact, the pressure to have sex only gets worse.

As it is now, I have one, maybe two good friends, but I actually think that I annoy the second person and they pretend I don't to be nice. I have a tiny handful of acquaintances, but they all have other friends and will not be seen with me when their other friends are there. I have no male acquaintances. And don't say "go up to someone new." Sounds great, but imagine standing in a hallway full of people in designer clothing who are all hanging off of and making out with other people while they're all high. You're wearing clothes from Wal-Mart, and you are fat, and people know that you like Pokemon. Who do you go up to? What the hell do you say? Do you actually expect them to listen?

Maybe I'll just try conforming and fitting in, and if I don't like it then I'll go back to being myself. But I don't know how to conform. How to make people think I'm a slut, even if I'm not. And I need to know how. ._.;

I really don't want to start having sex just yet... I just want to make people think I will, so they'll start talking to me again. And then once they start talking to me, then I can slowly start being myself and maybe get friends. I really don't want to be a slut, just get a reputation as being one so that people will start associating with me and I'll have somewhere to work from in getting friends.

[Sam]