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[Frozenwinters]

THIS IS GETTING REALLY *crag* CONFUSING. STOP CALLING EACH OTHER FEMALE IF THEY STILL HAVE A PENIS PLX

[Celeste Dimentia]

[Super Postman]

[Boomer]

Wow...well, it sounds like you two are sure, so...I just hope you're happy with your decision, SSSSSS-BOOM. I'm, uh, just gonna refer to you as O Chunks and CD and try to avoid pronouns...

[Super Maiq the Liar]

[Zelnor]

Okay, why did this become a double post ?

[Zelnor]

Okay, VERY awkward. That will take some getting used to... Are you sure you are prepared to face society ? It is your choice... But I'd still say see a psychologist before anything else.

It is your choice, but it'll be for all your life.

But you have to accept that it is peoples' good right to find it just plain creepy if two seventeen year olds call each other sister and plan on doing a sex change, and announce that in a public forum with a lenghty discussion afterwards.

I wonder how it would've went without any internet. Would oyu have adapted ? Would you have found happiness still ?

Why is everything a two-edged sword ?

Such is judgement. People will judge you, everyone for themselves.
Some will approve or at least leave you be.
Some will disapprove, be not understanding or even disgusted.
Are oyu prepared for all that ? Are you ready to place that on a moments' decision, a decision affluences by people you have never met over a vast distance, without having attended any authority on the subject ? Have you even considered just talking about it with someone trained for handling or advising this sort of situation before ?

I do not want to influence your judgment. I am holding back my opinion as much as I can because I think that all people deserve as much of fair treatment and unbiased, logical and / or helpful advice as manageable by any human.

But I want you to be fulyl aware of the monumental consequences of what you are about to do because of motivation from a fellow over the internet.

I do not want to trash-talk your relationship.

Please, consider it. Talk to a professional psychatrist. Meditate and find the cause in yourself. Talk to your parents.

If you can't manage telling your parents before doing anything, I'd advide you not to do it. If you can't stand up to people that are willing to compensate anything for you and love you, how will you stand up to strangers or bigots ?

I beg of you, consider it.

Oh, and O Chunks - I am terribly sorry. Please jump over the next paragraph, but...

It is really seeming ridiculous to me as an individual. Logically I can at least try to wrap myself around the idea that you think you are a woman. But as a person, I cannot. Maybe it's because of the aversion to change that everyone has. I do not own any rights to influence anyones decision, but I'd prefer if people stayed the way they are. If you and CD would pull it through, I don't know what I'd do. I know this is really mean of me to do it this way, kinda trying to shame you, but... You're a guy. You were born a guy. So what, in the name of the heavens and everything in the universe, makes you think you are a freaking woman ? You bear two different chromosomes. You are genetically one hundred percent male. So what makes your mind say the opposite ?

EDIT: This whole topic is becoming, pardon my german, a shitfest.
Why don't we all just post out sexual preferences in big, bold letters on the front page to maximize the awkwardness ? I respect people's right ot choose how they swing, but could they be a bit more decent about it ? Shouting it into all four directions makes it a lot less easy to be decent and not to say "Yuck." I.E., for me, I find it creepy that Mr. I is actually flirting with CD, even prior to any action, operation or therapy whatsoever.

[Legendary Mashine]

[Super Postman]

I'm sorry If I was foaming at the mouth yesterday....

Just seemed like everyone Ganged up on Sarah while I was away.... they really hurt her, in turn they really hurt me....

Loosing friends hurts, Unfortunately. It looked like to me, Sarah got a full force blow from that.

We knew even mentioning this would cause us to loose respect, Friends, And even Family..... This is why we planned to do this together. If it is the right path we will be happy, and if everything fell though... at the very end we still have each other.

I feel like some of you are rejecting the idea of us even trying to get psychological help. Which makes no freaking sense, whatsoever... we wont start until we are sure of it. SURE of it.

Sarah is Seeing someone about this soon, so she can sort things out.

I myself, still have to tell my parents... which I will. probably this week.

I have to go now for a little while.

[Bowser Jr.]

Bwargh! I completely agree with FrozenWimp, quit it with the female pronouns, losers. What the hell are you two morons thinking? You're gonna let a little hormonal imbalance take over your pathetic little lives and force you to change the loserific person that you are now? You're only going to sink EVEN lower than you already have, which I thought was as impossible as a Goomba growing ARMS. You two need to get a sense of reality or at least a slightly less pathetic comprehension of it than what you have been exhibiting lately, morons! Actually think about what your twisted little minds are saying here, you're gonna alter who you really are, which I believe is the biggest offense in society! YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE, THERE AIN'T NO POINT CHANGIN' IT! If you're going to follow through with this, then you will be living your life as a LIE! How are you going to live knowing that you're very existance is a complete lie? I doubt that anyone could handle that, not even ME. You have been destined by some loserific force that you will be who you are today, and nothing less than that, or more. Take into consideration of what you are putting your friends, and you damn families through right now, and see if you are so determined to take this step. Stop thinking for yourself, and THINK ABOUT OTHERS, DAMNIT! This isn't going to cause dramatic effects on you, no, losers, it will effect the community around you even more so. THINK BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING, LOSERS, THAT'S ALL I'VE GOTTA SAY.

[Yoshi]

Time to stop following the bandwagon here.


YOU'RE INSANE.

CD has lost all my respect in one topic. Not like I really respected him too much, and yes, you are still a HIM.

Now it IS your choice, but remember this:

YOU'LL GET OVER IT.

Sure, you'll be happy for one week, but then, you won't really care, realize it was temporary feelings, and the rest of your life sucks for no reason at all.

[YagamiMirror]

Um, good luck?

[Sam]

So has CD come to his senses? was I right or wrong? Popple shush your mouth because It's getting really unnessacarly annoying. Chaos Dimentio, It seems you haven't thought through it yet. You are probably destined to be male, because you may hurt tons of your friends that you used to care about if you turned Female. Of course, Its your choice, but your taking a big part here that you can dodge for the sake of your friends and family.

[Twytch]

I'm actually a pretty firm believer of "It's your damn body, nobody else can tell you what to do with it". I hope you've really thought this through, because there's no turning back once you do. I'll think no differently of you both.

[Sam]

See "fayth" I was trying to tell you about tons of this family and friends stuff, and you said you were ready, which I do believe you are. But that doesn't mean what I said was directed at you was it? What if it was directed at Chaos Dimentio? It was directed to both of you, and Apparently, CD doesn't seem like he's ready, or he can handle it.

CD, put yourself down for awhile, think about your friends first. Think if you will make them happy or sad.

Like Maiq said, If someone liked you, and shes a girl, then you swapped Gender's, how would you feel? or how about the other way arround, if you like a girl, then she swaps genders. You'd feel horrible. Also, is money more valuable to your friends? or is your gender more valuable about your friends.

I'm not trying to hurt you like Popple and other people make me sound like I am. In a way Im trying to help you, mentally.

Like I said, its your choice, and like what Twytch said, I won't think of you differently, however I will always remember you as the person who was male, but changed his gender.