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So I just decided to make a pie-chart detailing stress.
 
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 9:43 pm   Reply with quote

This is basically detailing the biggest sources of stress that I've had for a while now.



To go into detail for a few of them.

Yellow is a block pretty much everyone has. Everybody wants to make something, do something, or go somewhere, and they have that incredibly strong feeling that they will never get to do it.

The red area basically describes why I resent certain people. I have tried to convey the base of the story so many times, I tried it in YC, RPOT(twice I think), and I'm pretty sure RP. Every time it was pretty much ignored by everyone but maybe one person, yet when some people do something that wasn't...well, I might not have seen anything spectacular, they get praised like a god or something.(This doesn't involve the Mischief Makers thing I've been trying to start, either)

The pink is...well...probably the largest cause of stress. I don't think there is much else to say aside from what's up there, but I could add a fact about myself. I'm the kind of person who would sooner die than let go of someone he really truly cares about.

I'm not sure how to go about green, most people have alot of fears as well. I guess some of my greatest fears besides death would be spiders, evil ghosts, the idea of hell, and the image of torture.

I guess you could consider the blue area to also represent the amount of sanity I have left. I have literally exploded in the past and gone on a total rampage, destroying friendships, bitching at everyone, and being a total asshole. Thankfully, I haven't actually snapped in a long time, though I occasionally have silent outbursts.



Go ahead, chew me out and make assumptions. I just figured you'd like to know why I sometimes sound more like an ass than other times, since I'm sure you've all seen my attitude change drastically on some days.
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 9:47 pm   Reply with quote

those are very relevant stressors.

I wish someone like-liked me...................
but then again I don't try.
Cuz if I try, I try too hard.
that's happened before.

And I've never seen your mood change like that.
So I do't think that statement is true, but just from my own experience.
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 9:54 pm   Reply with quote

These are my stress relievers:

1) Roleplay, even if its a tiny little short thing. Its amazing how much you can do when you mentally replace the names of anyone you are fighting with the names of people that piss you off.
2) Draw. I love to draw and drawing, especially doodling, takes my mind off of things.
3) Reading, mostly fantasy novels. I can literally get lost within these worlds and forget about life outside the book.
4) Games, but then again, everyone here plays games. I play mostly for fun, but sometimes for stress-relief, such as headshotting people in FPSs.
5) Daydream.

I really hope that your stress goes down. And just remember: Don't let yourself get stressed unneededly about class/work, as that might cause bad events. Just smile and believe it will work out and then make it so.
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 9:56 pm   Reply with quote

what medikoopa said. don't let stress get you down.
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:02 pm   Reply with quote

Medikoopa wrote:
These are my stress relievers:

1) Roleplay, even if its a tiny little short thing. Its amazing how much you can do when you mentally replace the names of anyone you are fighting with the names of people that piss you off.

Tried it, they always fall flat within two days, remember? T_T
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2) Draw. I love to draw and drawing, especially doodling, takes my mind off of things.

I can't draw worth shit, and I'm so selfconsious about it what I tear it up if I make one little mistake.
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3) Reading, mostly fantasy novels. I can literally get lost within these worlds and forget about life outside the book.

Alright, I have the first for HP novels, goosebumps, and a bunch of childrens books. My parents don't believe in buying books, and I do not want to read 100 books about World War II. Sad
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4) Games, but then again, everyone here plays games. I play mostly for fun, but sometimes for stress-relief, such as headshotting people in FPSs.

True enough, but they cause problems as well...
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5) Daydream.

The Red and Pink sections pretty much sum up every daydream I have now, and that sometimes leads to more stress thanks to new ideas, wants or worries that spawn from them.
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:15 pm   Reply with quote

Maiq the Liar wrote:
Medikoopa wrote:
1) Roleplay, even if its a tiny little short thing. Its amazing how much you can do when you mentally replace the names of anyone you are fighting with the names of people that piss you off.

Tried it, they always fall flat within two days, remember? T_T

Yes, but just go with short, simple roleplays rather than long plots.

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2) Draw. I love to draw and drawing, especially doodling, takes my mind off of things.

I can't draw worth shit, and I'm so selfconsious about it what I tear it up if I make one little mistake.

I said I love to doodle, which doesn't require any real effort. Just a couple squiggles could be a doodle.

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3) Reading, mostly fantasy novels. I can literally get lost within these worlds and forget about life outside the book.

Alright, I have the first for HP novels, goosebumps, and a bunch of childrens books. My parents don't believe in buying books, and I do not want to read 100 books about World War II. Sad[/quote]
Who wants to read about WW2? I'm talking about fantasy. I really recommend the HP novels, and if the childrens' books are stuff by Rohl Dall, go nuts on them. Otherwise, there's always the internet with online-copies of books and fanfics. Tough to find good ones sometimes, but they're worth the search.

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4) Games, but then again, everyone here plays games. I play mostly for fun, but sometimes for stress-relief, such as headshotting people in FPSs.

True enough, but they cause problems as well...

They do not. The whole "video games cause ____" is bull-crag. The real issue with, for example, gun violence is that the people were either 1) not taught how the difference between reality and fiction, such as the fact that shooting people is okay in games but not okay in reality. 2) stupid and suffered lax parents who'll blame anything but themselves. 3) already psychos.

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5) Daydream.

The Red and Pink sections pretty much sum up every daydream I have now, and that sometimes leads to more stress thanks to new ideas, wants or worries that spawn from them.
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Then daydream about you being inside a world from a game!
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:22 pm   Reply with quote

I do remember when I was hating on you. I should say this;I'm sorry for what happened in the past. I'm pretty sure we made it up, though, or we'd probably wouldn't be interacting with eachother. Anyways, Maiq, there's the thing that worked for me. Taking a break until you really, really wanna come back. That's what I did last December. I think that's what made me pretty easy on this site. I realize this may be an IRL problem, and that's understandable. I'm not sure exactly what this problem is for you, and I'm not going to bother you about it, but I will say, that talking with a friend or a family member really should help unless you have severe personality disorders. After all, social stuff is a required part of human life, and that can be good or bad. Also, I do not advise therapy, if you go to that length. Unless you like spending money to recline on a chair and blurt out garbage to some old person.
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:24 pm   Reply with quote

1. I can't do short plots. I'd no doubt attempt to turn it into a larger plot thanks to my attatchment to some characters.

2. It's not that simple. I can't even doodle without perfectionist mode kicking in.

3. By children's books, I literally mean things like "Disney's Cinderella" and "Disney's The Lion King"

4. I don't mean like that. I mean they can cause stress due to the potential drama, and the fact that I have a subconsiousness in some games that make me not want to kill random people. ie, I can't bring myself to go on a rampage on Oblivion, Fable, or anything like that.

5. No matter what, one or the other finds it's way in.

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I will say, that talking with a friend or a family member really should help unless you have severe personality disorders.

I went through the last 6-7 years of school without uttering more than the occasional answer thanks to being generally disliked there. I was pushed into such an anti-social state that I can't even bring myself to talk to my family about most problems(plus, my voice strains easily).
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:30 pm   Reply with quote

You need the spider section of the chart. *slap*

I know how you feel.
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:35 pm   Reply with quote

I have stress too, butI don't go around making charts!
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 5:46 am   Reply with quote

...Oddly enough, I think your chart is the exact same as to of what MY stress is.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 12:52 pm   Reply with quote

And btw, Tails, that goes to show that I'm too forgiving.
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 1:17 pm   Reply with quote

Maiq the Liar wrote:
And btw, Tails, that goes to show that I'm too forgiving.
I am too. I have trouble killing the Adoring Fan, to give you a hint of how meek I am.
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 1:43 pm   Reply with quote

Tails Doll wrote:
Maiq the Liar wrote:
And btw, Tails, that goes to show that I'm too forgiving.
I am too. I have trouble killing the Adoring Fan, to give you a hint of how meek I am.

Not that, I'm talking about how you were with the whole "you should kill yourself" thing.
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