Oh and for the dolphin and VBA-M emulators go into task manager and set their priorities to real time
it makes it run much faster

Can't play today (limited free time plus my terrible laptop) but I should have plenty of free time during the week.

Okay this is what your graphics settings shoudl look like once you get the files from me:

and here is the extra DSP file necessary for multiplayer audio:
http://www.mediafire.com/?nneuvjlti4z

once you've put these in the GC folder under the USER folder then change the DSP(audio) setting to DSP LLE recompiler. Far as I know this is the only audio setting that works for multiplayer.

I may actually try to get in on this one.