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PostPosted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 9:50 pm   Reply with quote

As always, this is a serious topic, and should be treated as such. This thread will remain PG-13, like any topic on sexuality or issues relating to such on this site. In other words, while I wish for you to express deep, thoughtful opinions towards the matter, I don't want you to go into great detail about the "examples"; as I said, keep it PG-13.

What is your opinion on sexual fetishes and/or sexuality? Is it right, wrong, or neither, and why do you believe this?

I, myself, have no problem with those who have uncommon sexual fetishes- as long as they do not involve physical harm towards the unwilling. For instance, in the case of sexuality, I believe that homosexuals have every right to participate in homosexual activity, as long as they do not force it upon someone who is straight (Which is rare.)

What are your thoughts on uncommon sexual fetishes or people who have uncommon sexual fetishes (Example: Furries)?
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 9:56 pm   Reply with quote

I don't mind them to much...as long as they keep them to themselves.
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 9:58 pm   Reply with quote

Y'know, its funny. When I read this topic, the ad at the top said "Gay Chubby Dating". Some may be disgusted by this, but I don't care to be honest. I agree, I don't mind different fetishes as long as there is no harm to and of the people involved in it. People find it hard to believe people like different things, which is why there is negativity towards certain fetishes. People don't like what is different, and it is sad.
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 10:09 pm   Reply with quote

Fetishes are often just simply preference in some cases. The words sort of lost its sexual meaning, some who have a mild interest in per say Bondage might call it Their Fetish. In turn I think its become a catch all term for slight attraction of what may be considered outside of the sexual norm, to something that deeply effects the individual, possibly even being augmented by a mental illness or traumatic experience.

As for Sexuality, thats up to the individual and those like them. I as a bisexual, kind of wish more people were open with their sexuality, but I understand that its all a matter of what you are attracted to. What I dislike is someone being Close minded about sexuality, to the point where they hate a homosexual or a bisexual for their sexuality. =/

Being Transexual often creates even more problems, but I wont get too deeply into that, Simply put who you can date is very limited.
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 10:33 pm   Reply with quote

And I quote the dictionary: "Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification."

For example feet. Feet aren't used in "normal" standard sex. But some people are aroused by them.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 12:52 am   Reply with quote

Having fetishes is fine, IMO. I admit I have a couple weird ones, so it would be pretty hypocritical of me to say that it's wrong. I keep them to myself, though, and I feel that other people should do the same. If you have a thing for anthropomorphic dogs, that's fine, but I don't want to hear about it.
But like LC said, if your fetish involves actually hurting people... that's a different story.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 1:24 am   Reply with quote

I agree - people have the right to do what they want as long as that does not infringe upon the rights of other people.


I just wish in some cases they were a bit less public about it, AND wouldn't scream, for example, "FURSECUTION !" (or a similiar cry) whenever questioned or asked to not be THAT open.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 1:27 am   Reply with quote

I'm alright with all sexualities. Bisexual my self, even.

I'm also alright with fetishes... hell I have a glasses fetish
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 1:35 am   Reply with quote

Maya Fey wrote:
I'm alright with all sexualities. Bisexual my self, even.

I'm also alright with fetishes... hell I have a glasses fetish
My thoughts exactly.

Do what you want, but it might not always be the best idea to share it with everyone.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 7:18 am   Reply with quote

Zelnor wrote:
I agree - people have the right to do what they want as long as that does not infringe upon the rights of other people.


I just wish in some cases they were a bit less public about it, AND wouldn't scream, for example, "FURSECUTION !" (or a similiar cry) whenever questioned or asked to not be THAT open.
Much what I was going to say.

First off, I, personally, fail to understand the popularity of drawn pornography, but I guess I haven't got a choice but to let it be.

But, like Zelnor said, some people ocasionally become too loud about their sexual interests. Digi has faced a good amount of people screaming about how much they like lolicon (I'M SAYING NO NAMES :U), for example. I guess it's not that much of a problem here, in a forum where you're supposed to be 13 or above to be a member, though some exceptions have been given out. But come on, it's done in front of younger people in lawbreaker forums for all ages as well. IMO, some people need to learn to keep it where it belongs. Again, I'm saying no names, and specially, none in Digi, since it can't be the case here.

I haven't got a problem with homossexuality and bissexuality, too. But I do have a problem with people that are very hypocritical about it, like my bro, who says he's got no problem with this sort of people, but is often calling other people gay on the purpose of offending them.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 7:39 am   Reply with quote

Having feteishes are fine as long as YOU KEEP IT TO YOURSELF IN FORUMS LIKE THIS ONE BECAUSE APPARENTLY SOME PEOPLE CAN'T KEEP IT TO THEMSELVES AND ARE GETTING OUT OF HAND.
Any type of feteishes are fine, because its that person's opinon, not yours so I respect anyone's feteishes, no matter how bizzare it may be.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 8:49 am   Reply with quote

In my opinion, there are three levels of fetishism.

Level 1 - You keep the fetish to yourself, but actively enforce it during sexual (or in some cases, nonsexual) activities.

Level 2 - Mentioning it here and there, maybe when asked what turns you on.

Level 3 - Not knowing when to shut up about it and constantly blabbering on about it.

Anyone at level 1 or 2 is perfectly fine in my eyes. You're allowed to have whatever fetishes you want, even if it is considered odd or even disgusting in the eye of the general public. But if you're at level 3, it's time to shut up about what gets you going. I'm not saying they have no right to their fetish, I'm saying if you constantly bring it up, even when it doesn't relate to the topic at hand, you need to just be silent.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 10:16 am   Reply with quote

I disagree with homosexuality, and I will never do it because I am straight, but I respect it... Sometimes I hate it when people get perverted, they act very foolish.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 11:39 am   Reply with quote

Anything two consenting adults do in the bedroom is fine with me as long as they keep it to themselves :X
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 12:46 pm   Reply with quote

And, Jolene, as I already added previously somewhere, as long as it is in legal boundaries.

Oh, and in Japan you're an adult, or at least allowed to have sex, with 12.

WTF.
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