Is it because you logically concluded that there are certain ways the sexes should behave? Or is it because you are merely conforming to the conservative views of an ignorant society and flawed culture? It is disgusting to think that some people still believe that there are certain traits beyond the obvious biological differences of the sexes that determine what makes a man a "man" and what makes a woman a "woman."
It is a stifling of individuality in favor of conformism. This all boils down to one, single truth: you should act as an individual. Not as a custom or an idea.